I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. He is my soul mate and we love each other very much. Eternity is a long time. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. I was convinced that if I didn't move to be with him we would never have a shot at a real relationship because his training would take so long - residency. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was.
All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. So if you marry a doctor do not have low expectations, but learn early to take third parties out of your marriage even if you have to call them directly and tell theey do not matter to me. I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. But God works in mysterious ways. I think you need to figure out if you are willing to stay in a relationship with a man who's so busy, because trust me, it's not going to change anytime soon.
See where it goes. We have been together for around three years and I feel like now more than ever he expects me to just do things his way and not have an opinion. Then a few months later he was not given time off for our daughter's pre-school graduation which was a big deal at the school especially since the school was closing.
Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. I have this brain trapped after all these years. Instructions can be found here: Posted by Your Doctor's Wife at 2: September 6, at 3: Marianne April 28, at 8: Anonymous September 21, at Anonymous October 19, at 9: Anonymous May 3, at 5: Anonymous November 24, at 2: Anonymous January 13, at 8: A must-read every morning. Please think carefully before marrying with someone works in medical industry. It's the extra socializing, hanging out with residents, stopping by the hospital to visit his best friend.